Ageing doesn’t come with a manual, so we made one
Clear plans, expert support and a calm headspace for people juggling ageing parents, work, family and carrying the midlife load.
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If you’re here, chances are you’re in the thick of it...
Your parents need more help than they used to.
Your kids (or partner, or both) still need you just as much.
Work deadlines don’t stop for family emergencies.
The “life admin” pile is growing faster than you can touch it.
And somehow, you’re the one holding it all together.
It’s a lot.
It’s exhausting.
And it’s not what you signed up for.
You’re not failing — you’re carrying a load no one was meant to carry alone.
The truth is: most of us don’t think about this until it’s too late
There’s no roadmap.
It feels too morbid.
The systems are confusing.
The paperwork never ends.
One sibling ends up doing more - family tensions rise.
Decisions made in the heat of a crisis.
It’s reactive, stressful, and it drains you - mentally, emotionally, financially.
That’s where we come in....
Welcome to Dead ORGANISED
Dead Organised is a practical platform supporting people in midlife especially the sandwich generation who are juggling ageing parents, work, kids, family and life
We help people stop firefighting and start feeling in control again
We take the chaos, confusion, and the ‘I don’t even know where to start’ feeling and replace it with a clear plan, the right support, and the headspace you need.
We take you out of survival mode and into clarity.
We help you take control and turn overwhelm into structure.
Dead Organised is ageing reimagined: calm, thoughtful, and built for how we live today
Meet Lou...
Hi everyone, I’m Dead Excited to be here!
I’m Louise - please call me Lou. I’m founder of Dead Organised: a practical hub for
Gen Xers, empty nesters, the Sandwich Generation, or frankly, anyone who just wants to get life sorted. We break taboos and tackle the stuff no one really wants to talk about. The paperwork, the sorting things out, the tricky conversations. We make it all Dead Easy!
We offer clear roadmaps, scripts for tricky conversations, and hands-on help to turn overwhelm into action. With 30+ years in high-end hospitality - including running restaurants - I treat ageing the way great hosts treat guests: people-first, calm, organised, and action-oriented.
In Western society, ageing and end of life are often seen as negatives, unlike in many cultures where they’re respected and celebrated as part of a life well lived. At Dead Organised, we believe ageing is a privilege, not a burden, and that planning for the future should feel empowering, not overwhelming.
Come & have a look. Everyone is Dead Welcome!
How we work with you...
Step One
TALK
We start with a conversation about what matters
most to you
Step Two
SORT
We create a clear, personalised plan to tackle the
big stuff
Step Three
LIVE
You get to stop firefighting and focus on living your
life again
Imagine…
Knowing exactly what to do next when a parent needs more care.
Having all your key documents, plans and wishes in one place.
Feeling calm, organised, and supported — instead of guilty, resentful, or panicked.
Having tricky family conversations without the drama.
Planning your own future in a way that feels empowering, not depressing.
This is the part where the load feels lighter. Where you feel capable, confident, and ready for whatever’s next.
Who we work with
We support people in midlife, especially those in the sandwich generation, who are...
Juggling care for ageing parents and raising children
Struggling with the emotional and practical overwhelm
Feeling guilty, resentful, exhausted—or all three
Planning ahead for their own future and legacy
Craving clarity, support, and a sense of calm
You don’t need to “fix it all.”
But you do deserve help figuring out where to begin.
Our Services
Practical tools. Personal support. A new approach to ageing.
No fluff. No judgment. Just help.
1:1 Support Sessions
Tailored guidance to get you unstuck fast
Workshops and Courses
Learn how to handle care, grief, legacy, and big transitions.
The Dead Organised Folder
One stylish home for all your important info
Available digital or printed
Coming soon!
Online Course
The Get Dead ORGANISED gentle 6-week journey to get everything sorted.
Coming soon!
Planning Tools & Checklists
Step-by-step help for the practical (and emotional) stuff.
Our Approach
We’re not a law firm. We’re not healthcare. We’re human.
And we approach ageing the way great hosts approach guests: with care, taste, and attention to detail.
And we approach the second half of life for ourselves and for our ageing parents with the same mindset as the very best in hospitality. It’s about going above and beyond to create a great experience. It’s about getting clear, getting prepared and making space for what really matters. It’s about living well so we can age well. It’s about creating something we are excited about and we actually want to be part of.
Hospitality not hospitals
We help you..
Navigate the care maze
Handle tricky family conversations
Organise paperwork and life admin
Declutter what’s not working (physically and emotionally)
Plan your legacy on your terms
Support your own health as you age
All delivered with warmth, empathy, and a customer-first lens.
Dead Organised is the UK’s first Customer Experience led ageing & caregiving solution. We are modernising ageing & leading the way. We’re not just asking what’s next, we’re building something better for ourselves, our families, and the future.
The 3rd & 4th chapters of life are about possibility and intention. We’re creating experiences we want to be part of, not just managing decline or getting through. Dead Organised is bringing clarity, community, and dignity to a stage of life that deserves far more attention.
People will forget what you said, they will forget what you did but they will not forget how you made them feel.
Client Testimonials
“Honestly, getting things sorted has been one of the best things I’ve done. Louise is supportive, practical, and full of ideas.”
“I only wish we’d done this before my parents died. I’m now sorting myself so my children won’t go through the same thing.”
“Louise helped us have conversations we’d been avoiding for years. It felt surprisingly empowering.”
Stop firefighting. Start feeling in control.
This is about more than just getting through.
It’s about ageing well, planning with purpose, and creating a future that feels right for you, and those you love.
Hospitality, not healthcare.
Customer experience, not crisis management.
Clarity, not confusion.
Life design, not legal jargon.
Planning, not panic.
Because ageing isn’t the end. It’s the next chapter.
And you deserve to write it your way.
Let’s get you Dead Organised.
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